Fathers Day Gift Suggestion: Raising a Father

Last year, my sister and I took our dad to the Pineapple Room (Alan Wong's Restaurant) for Father's Day. They do this special buffet for dads every year with all kinds of "manly" dishes like prime rib, short ribs, mahimahi, steak and eggs, etc. They really do it up for dads there and make a big deal out of the event.

It was so much fun with just the three of us and we laughed, talked, and ate for over 2 hours! With this year's date approaching soon, I wonder what we'll do to top it? I love my dad! There, I said it

I really do though. My daddy has always been there for me - been there for cheerleading, marching band, basketball, college.... I am so glad that I have the type of dad that spends time with me and supports me unconditionally. He even got me started in blogging when I was only 16 because he wanted me to be able to support myself through college without having to work in retail or fast food. My dad is so smart and so good!

There's a book called Raising a Father that tells the story of a dad that was not at all like my dad - a dad that got all wrapped up in his career and neglected his role as a father figure in the house. It's made up of short stories about missed opportunities between father and daughter that lots of my friends seem to experience. The book brings out some simple suggestions about relationships that all fathers and daughters can learn from to make their bonds stronger and more fulfilling.

If you're looking for a neat Father's Day gift, then here's my suggestion...

Buy the book for yourself and read it. Then, write a heartfelt note to your dad on the inner sleeve and give it to your dad for Father's Day. If your daddy was like mine, then thank him and tell him you love him for it. If your daddy is like the dad in the book, then tell him you love him and miss him. What do you think?

[Source: Going2Oahu Hawaii Travel Blog]